Friday, August 22, 2008

Where we're supposed to be

Cara had her appointment today with Dr. Malone, our oncologist. We felt so right about him, instantly impressed with his expertise and caring demeanor. He rolled his doctor chair right over next to Cara and explained that she is definitely in stage 2, and possibly/probably higher. Her spleen is enlarged--a sign of possible stage 3 cancer--and if that is the case they'll do a bone marrow test to make sure she doesn't have stage 4. A little scary, but the prognosis is still good no matter the stage. Dr. Malone took great care in answering all our questions, and he knows his stuff, still teaching every so often up at Stanford where he previously practiced. He even knew about Cara's CAH disorder, something very few doctors around here know about since it is so rare. So we are in very capable hands. What's next? Cara has to do some further blood-work and get a CAT scan on Tuesday of her abdomen and pelvis, and Malone said she should start the "Stanford V" chemo treatment the following Monday.

So pray that the cancer has not spread to her spleen or bone marrow! And pray that her body responds well to the treatment. Cara is such a strong woman...I'm cringing as the Dr. lists off the side effects--naseau, vomiting, exhaustion, hair loss, mouth sores, etc.--and Cara's sitting there like, "Alright, I'm ready." Crazy! I can't begin to tell you all how encouraging it is to know that we've got countless prayers going up on our behalf. And the meals, kid-watching, and other help has kept us sane in the midst of crazy circumstances. Crazy to us, that is, not to Him. We're doing our best to here His voice saying, "Be still."

16 comments:

Irish Girl said...

Cara and Keith,
God is in control and I have to keep reminding myself of that! And you are right Keith, Cara is a strong woman!!! If anyone can get through this, she can! I love you both, and I am so sad that I will be in Texas unable to help with meals and the kiddos, but know that I will be sending up prayers continuously!

Sugar Plum Invitations said...

You are in our thoughts and prayers. God is bigger than anything we face. I know, easy to say, tough to believe. So glad you found an awesome MD.. sounds like he knows his stuff. I'm sure we'll be cooking for you soon! You are well loved, hang in there! b

Katie Lady said...

Dear Ones, we are so glad to hear that God worked all this out for you to see the DR. I know it's hard to wait--remember pregnancy is a great analogy for that--but all in due time. We are praying for you and wish we lived nearer to you, too. But God is God everywhere, so He'll be hearing from those who love you all over the place! We'll stay in touch. Let us know if you're still coming to So. Cal for the wedding and we'll find you a place to stay.

Larissa said...

Big Hugs to you both!!

kenandjudi said...

we're praying for you all here in Hawaii as well!! and looking forward to being home next week to be your neighbors!!! love ya and see ya soon!!!

Kristen Borland said...

We are continuing to pray for all of you. It is so encouraging to hear there's a plan and that Cara is so strong. God is with you all.

Irish Mom said...

Keith and Cara: I am praying for you and know that Our Lord has you and your family in the palm of HIS hand. Thank you for sharing what you are going through. Love suzanne kelley

A Wheeler said...

God Bless you both. I am with you in prayer.

Eileen

Unknown said...

The Henson's San Jose Bed and breakfast is open if you need to rest here between treatments. It is quiet, open and we will leave y'all alone or pamper you!

suedonaldson said...

praying for you all - so glad you get to move to your mom's - praying for her too! (it's hard on a mom, too, as you know!) love and prayers, sue

shari said...

i have been praying hourly for you guys. i think of you so often throughout the day and each time, i throw up a prayer that the Lord will ease your fears!

Lisa Leonard said...

we've been praying for you guys. so glad the dr. is great. what a huge blessing! we love you guys!!

2Badgers said...

Hi loved ones,
We're glad to read of Cara's response to the Dr's explanations of side effects, because through Christ, we are more than conquerers and He will not give you/her more than you can handle as everyone puts faith in Him together. With Christ, nothing will be impossible.....we pray that God will be gloried in your testimony through this. Much love and hugs!

liz oelker said...

My heart is grieving for you all as you deal with this. I know all things are in His will but it is never easy to watch people you truly love go through so much. My prayers continue your way especially as the treatment is soon to begin. I love you both and pray for you both.

Elias said...

keith, thanks for the update. keep them coming. i'm praying.

Ponderosa said...

Peet's Here... love you Cara and Keith, you are in our prayers...