Ok, so we are beginning to realize how drastically our life is going to change. At first I was thinking that everything would remain mostly the same, with Cara going in for treatment every couple weeks. Not anymore. We are realizing that we are in the fight of our life, and that we need to be in a wartime mentality--focused totally on the goal of getting Cara better. We know that she'll beat this, and that our life will eventually be more "normal", but for now we are preparing to consolidate and sacrifice.
The first change is that we will be moving in with my in-laws, Jan and Bill West here in town. They have a few extra rooms and they brought up the idea a few days ago. The girls already feel so at home there, and it makes it much easier for Grammy Jan to be available. The move also puts us closer to good friends such as Kim Davis, the Peets, and the Laitys, among others. Honestly, it will be hard saying goodbye to our apartment home, and Cara can't believe she has to drive up and down that dirt road again, but it is the best move for us right now.
Also, we are hoping to get Cara treated up at Stanford Medical Center, the best cancer treatment on the west coast. It's been highly recommended by several people, and my grandparents live close so we could stay there if need be while Cara gets chemo (most likely method). However, we're still waiting for a call back from our local Oncologist who would probably need to refer us to Stanford. Waiting is hard right now. By the way, we still don't know what stage Cara is in, so pray that we caught it early.
At this point the girls are doing well, except Bekah has an underarm rash and decided it would be fun to dump her milk-soaked frosted mini-wheats all over herself this morning. So she had some fun morning bath time. Sadie slept for almost 6 hours in a row last night, and is actually starting to look a little chubby (so cute!).
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Let us know if you need help moving!
Keith - I'll be up in San Jose most weekends now, and would be more than happy to help out in any way. Vehicle, babysitting, visits, ETC. I'll keep reading to stay informed!
Praying for you guys!
We just heard your news from Christy. Cara--you are a warrior! You are so tough--fighting this before you even knew is, while pregnant! And now with 2 adorable kids. We will pray for strength, confidence, and comfort from the Lord as you adjust to life.
Steve & Melissa Gruenholz
I think it's great that you will be with Jan and Bill and have the extra help. It's just a stage, and your perspective about getting Cara as healthy as possible is just what you need.
Cara, we are continuing to pray for you (for all of you!!). I wish I was closer to help (and that I was feeling better too!). But we can definitely pray!!!
We are wanting to help with your move or watching the girls or whatever when the time comes. Are you going to live upstairs or in another part of the house?
Keith & Cara - We are so thankful that you are keeping your friends & relatives updated on Cara's condition & progress. I know Cara will not enjoy the dirt road again, but like Keith said, it probably is best for all of you at this time. We are praying for Jannie too, as we realize she is stretched thin, trying to be the mother & grandmother that we all know she is. Give her a hug from Auntie Jan. You are all in our prayers. Remember Our God is Able! ~Auntie Jan & Uncle Ted~
Keith and Cara,
Of course you guys know that our help in any way is always there for you, and let us know on the short term needs as Keith starts school (maybe extra $ for books and stuff?) or in any way as you travel towards N&P's place. You have so much support and loving people who will be there for you as you trust God through this changing time for Cara's recovery. Continuing love and lots of prayers,
your Hollister family
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